Safe Sex

Safe Sex at blue-serve

Safe sex at blue-serve isn’t just about protection — it’s about respect, confidence, and taking control of your health. We believe in safe sex, whether you’re playing alone or playing together.

At blue-serve, we’re not just here to sell toys — we’re here to help you explore your desires with confidence, care, and informed choices. Whether it’s your first time experimenting or you’re a seasoned explorer, safety should always be part of the pleasure.

We’ve compiled some of the most common questions we hear from the community — based on public information. For personalised advice, always speak to your GP or sexual health professional.

Playing Alone – Yes, It’s Still Safe Sex

Solo play is one of the safest forms of sex — but it still benefits from good hygiene and product knowledge.

  • Use water-based lubricants: They’re gentle, easy to clean, and safe with most toys and condoms. Silicone lube can damage some toys — water-based is the universal go-to.
  • Clean your toys before and after: Use a toy cleaner or warm soapy water (avoid harsh chemicals).
  • Store gear in a dry, dust-free space: Avoid leaving items loose or in shared drawers.

Your solo sessions are yours to enjoy — safely, comfortably, and without friction.

Playing Together – Safety is a Shared Experience

When you’re connecting with someone else, looking after each other is part of the fun. Here’s what we recommend:

  • Get tested regularly: For most sexually active people, this means every 3–6 months. Find a sexual health clinic near you.
  • Explore PrEP & PEP:
    • What is PrEP?
    • PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) is a daily medication taken by HIV-negative people to prevent HIV infection. When taken consistently, it is over 99% effective.
    • What is PEP?
    • PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) is an emergency medication taken within 72 hours of potential HIV exposure. It must be started as soon as possible — the sooner the better.
    • Both are available in Australia through GPs, clinics, and online providers like PrEP Access Now (PAN)
  • Condoms are still king: They help prevent STIs and offer peace of mind — and with the right lube, they’re even better.
  • Open communication: Know your boundaries, ask about your partner’s, and don’t be afraid to pause and check in.

Toy Safety by Type

Different toys require different care — here’s a quick guide to common types and their safety notes:

Electro Play

  • Always use toys made specifically for electrostimulation.
  • Never use above the waist or on broken skin.
  • Start with low settings — never jump straight to max intensity.

Kids

  • Go slow and follow the manufacturer’s guide.
  • Never exceed the recommended pressure.
  • Avoid pumping while numb or after recent injury — listen to your body.

Nipple Pumps

  • Like penis pumps, they work on vacuum pressure — start small and slow.
  • Monitor colour and sensation — pain, numbness or discolouration = stop.
  • Don’t leave on for extended periods.

Puma

  • Use loads of lube — preferably water-based or hybrid.
  • Never skip warm-up. Start with smaller toys or fingers.
  • Micro-tears and bleeding can occur if rushed — take your time, and never push past discomfort.
  • Clean toys thoroughly and avoid switching between anal and other areas without proper sanitation.

Find a Sexual Health Clinic Near You

Need a check-up or advice from a pro? Start here:

Or search Australia-wide:
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